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Why is my BF keeping our relationship a secret?

 
 
I recently started going out with a guy friend, but I think he is embarrassed about it. He refuses to tell anyone we’re going out now. I don’t know what to think. Help!
 
Bill: Guys often run in packs, like dogs. Or Musketeers. So if one guy in the pack pairs off with a girl, no matter how great that girl is, it affects the dynamic of his pack. After all, your guy will be spending some time with you instead of his pals. Measure your guy’s devotion in the time spent with you, not by what he says (or doesn’t say). Besides, who wants to be the one to take the blame for reducing the Three Musketeers to Two?
 

Dave: Bill’s right on about the pack-mentality of males, so look at the bright side. While you might view your BF’s silence as a negative because it appears he’s less-than-proud to be dating, it beats a kiss-and-tell braggart. If your boyfriend wants to keep the relationship between you and him, without any outside interference for now, let it be.

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So this guy rides my bus, and he is best friends with my bf. They have p.e toether and he says the my bf said that he does not want to be with me anymore, but my bf hasent broke up with me yet. What do I do?

by Ariana101 on 2/11/2013 4:54:59 PM

 
 



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So I like this guy that I've known for quite a while. We have two classes together at school and he goes to my church and is in my classes and youth group there. I've even asked him to dance at dances that our church puts on for the youth group. But he doesn't seem to notice me. He never says hi or smiles when I say hi in the halls and in my two classes I have with him he has his group of friends around him constantly so I feel awkward approaching him. What can I do to get him to notice me but not that I like him. (I'm not quite ready for that)

 

Hey girlie, just try to keep talking to him. You need to get to know him better and as you're doing that, he'll start to notice you.  


Lauren T.

by KKH81497 on 1/13/2013 7:19:50 PM

 
 

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by dragonsrox1000 on 1/13/2013 1:24:33 AM

 
 



MODMODMODMODMODMODMODMOD Okay so I really need help so please respond! Okay so I have a friend lets call him B. B is having some family trouble and I feel bad for him. I have told him if he wants it to stop to tell a teacher but he says no because once he told a teacher and treated him like dirt. But i think he needs help! But he doesn't want help. Also he just broke up with his girlfriend so really he said i'm the only thing he has! Frown I need help!!

 

hey! keep supporting him the way you're doing and try to convince him to talk to an adult, even if he won't talk to a teacher. If he starts dropping hints that he might want to hurt himself, that's when you have to tell an adult even if he won't. I'm sorry your friend's having a hard time, and I hope he feels better soon!


Helen S.

by justkeeploving_jen on 1/12/2013 11:32:39 AM

 
 



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I need some advice quick please. I'm in college and there's this guy. We've admitted we love each other and really do and spend all our time together, but there's only one thing. I'm scared about the physical aspect of the relationship because I've never even had a real kiss before. What should I do??? Should I just go for it or would it be better to try to talk to him about it first? And if so, how?
MOD PLEASE! Thanks

 

Hey girl, if you're not comfortable with it then just don't let it happen. But if you want to try, I say just go for it! 


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by monkeyheartC on 1/12/2013 1:08:57 AM

 
 



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My guy friend liked this girl that I'm not too fond of, and when he asked her out, she rejected him, saying she likes someone that my guy friend really cant stand. Now he's crushed and keeps talking to me about how upset he is. Normally I'd be more than happy to help him out and comfort him, but its getting to the point where he just keeps going on and on and on about the exact same stuff and its getting monotonous. What makes it worse is the fact that every time I try to change the subject to keep his mind off her, he goes right back to talking about her. What should I do?

Hey girlie,

I know it's hard to hear the same things over and over again, but try to understand what he must be going through! Try cheering his up and getting his mind off of her by doing something fun, like going skating or bowling, or going to the movies. Once he starts having fun and getting his mind off her he won't talk about her as much! 


Meghan D.

by spazzygirI on 1/11/2013 11:40:52 PM

 
 

I means he's embarrassed by you :/ happens to every girl.

by xoxojillianxo on 1/9/2013 3:03:17 PM

 
 

@hermione girl

I read your problem and thats exactly what happened to me and my boyfriend! I was really good friends with him then he developed feelings for me and I him, and once I told him I liked him he told me. Trust me that guy adores you and I would just go for it because even if he says no, a bgf wouldn't leave you because of that one little thing.

by hottie1250 on 1/8/2013 9:44:03 PM

 
 

i was just wondering that today and now I see why thanks a billion girls life!!!

by hottie1250 on 1/8/2013 9:39:28 PM

 
 

I agree that he is better than a guy who does the kiss and tell and lets everyone know what you two are doing with each other but I would be a little concerned. That happened to one of my friends and it ended up that he had another girlfriend and was doing the same thing with her, talk about being a JERK! But it may be innocent too, I would try and find out.

by fashionqn on 1/8/2013 5:34:53 PM

 
 



MOD MOD MOD!!!!!! My brother does bball, and on his team is a really cute guy I like. I have never even talked to him, he's fifteen and I'm thirteen but I'm afraid he'll just think of me as a little girl. I am on the skinny side and 5'4". He will be coming over soon to hang out with my brother so what should I do? I really like him, but I'm shy! And my face always gets red and stuff. Thank you a lot for the advice!!!!!!!

 

 

Hey Girl! Go for it, 2 years isn't a ton of time! but to avoid seeming like the little sister, try not to follow them around. grabbing a book to hang near them while they'replaying video games is a not so obvious way to be near them. Then ask to join. If you are making popcorn and are about to watch a movie, see if they want to join.

 

Hannah H. 


Hannah H.

by ralinia on 1/8/2013 3:32:43 PM

 
 



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So one of my best friends recently got a boyfriend. The thing is, she had three boyfriends last year, and we're only in the 8th grade. I'm happy for her that she has a boyfriend, but I'm also jealous because so many people like her, including the guy I like. I've also never had a boyfriend and only one guy has liked me in my life, so I also feel really unappealing to boys. Are there any tips I can try to stop feeling jealous of my friend?




Hey girl,

We've all been where you are. We all feel inferior sometimes. The best way you can stop this from happening is to try and stop comparing yourself to your friend; you two are different and will have completely different situations. Be happy for her, but also recognize that you still have your entire life to date and there is no reason for you to be stressing about it now. The first step to feeling better about all of this is to stop, stop, stop, comparing because it will only make you feel worse. Look at the bright side- there are millions of great things waiting for you in the future, so there's no point in getting so worked up about this now. Be positive! You are beautiful and there will be plenty of guys that will see that. xoxo 
Alexis G.

by MusikRox1999 on 1/8/2013 2:02:19 AM

 
 

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by Emilicious on 1/7/2013 9:54:04 PM

 
 

He isn't embarrassed by you. He probably wants to keep it a secret and be with you without everyone making a big deal and telling his parents and all that stuff.

by transform2314 on 1/7/2013 8:56:48 PM

 
 

@ hermionegirl12 ...
I read what you said about ur bgf! I think that is sooo adorable and of COURSE he likes you! He is just really nervous cuz he's embarrassed that everyone found out about it! Just text him about it and see what happens! I betcha he'll ask u out!

by Justmecheyenne on 1/7/2013 8:02:03 PM

 
 

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Okay, so, my bf.. Well, I REALLY liked him. and now.. I'm not so sure. On Christmas, we had been dating for a month. Now I'm not sure if I have feelings for him. Whenever he hugs me and kisses me and stuff, well, it kinda just feels awkward now.. We are also really different. He's also really sweet.. Sometimes, too sweet... to the point where it's kinda clingy & annoying. I almost broke up with him a few days ago and he knew it too because we were talking about it.. and he was crying. :/ Now I kinda wish I would have broken up with him when I had the chance and now I feel like theres nothing I can do about it. Im also scared Im gonna miss him and regret it if I break up with him.Help?

Hey girl,

If you still want to break up with him, there's not "nothing you can do about it"--if you want to break up with him, you can do it whenever you want to, because no one is forcing you to date him! But if you're scared you'll regret it, it sounds like you're confused and that at least a part of you might still like him. Maybe before you break up with him, make a list of all of the great things about him and the things you don't like, and see if the bad things are enough to outweigh the good ones.

Meghan D.

by jazzdancer99 on 1/7/2013 7:53:03 PM

 
 

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Okay, so one of my good friends is going out with my sorta-ex boyfriend, because our families went on vacation together and we went on dates and he asked me out, but we kinda kept it a secret because we decided dating wasn't a good idea for us, and we're still kinda good friends I guess, it's just it hurts so much to see them together. Before we went out, he kinda liked her, in a "I can kinda see us dating but not really" way, but I like him soooo much. Plus, she treats him so badly, anything he does she finds something to yell at him about. What should I do to help with this jealous feeling? Thank you.

Hey girl,

As tough as it may be, try to be happy for them. Since she's your friend, deep down, you want what's best for her, even if that might be what's making you sad right now. Try hanging out with her one on one instead of with him so you don't have to see them together as much, and use this as an opportunity to spend more time with your other friends and your family, too. Focus on schoolwork and other things in your life to keep busy and not think about it, and look for other guys at your school you might not have noticed before!

Meghan D.

by cheerfulcheer on 1/7/2013 7:51:17 PM

 
 

Mod Mod Mod!: I'm really starting to like this guy but he's a grade below me. He isn't immature and he's really nice. I'm glad I like him since I've been thinking about another guy that use to go to my school over a year ago. I haven't thought about another guy since, till now! Is it weird that he's younger than me? I'm 14, he's 13... Thank you!

Hey girl,

If he's only a year younger than you, I don't think that's weird at all! If you've been friends for a while and he's nice to you, that's a good sign, too!

Meghan D.

by joannap on 1/7/2013 5:51:56 PM

 
 

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So the guy I like just asked me out over text today, and of course I said yes. But we have homeroom and science together, and it's gonna be awkward! How can I make it not be awkward in these classes?

Hey girl,

If he asked you out, that means he likes you, so it doesn't have to be awkward at all! Just tell him you are looking forward to the date and start a casual conversation. He'll be excited to talk to you!

Meghan D.

by cerenajade on 1/7/2013 5:04:25 PM

 
 

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Ok soI have a crush on my bgf. Today I was walking down the hallway and some random guy came up to me and asked me if If my name was annonymous (sorry i just dont wanna put my name down) and I said yes and then he said that my bgf had a major crush on me and then my bgf came running up and said it wasnt true. Then the guy said yes (this guy is my bgfs best friend) and said it wasnt true. Then the guy said that apparently my bgf told him a million times that he likes me but my bgf kept on denying it. Then later in the cafeteria he asked me if he could sit with me and i said sure then we sat down and he kept saying to me that he doesnt have a crush on me. Then later after school everybody was saying that he had a crush on me but he kept denying it. Then he said " Well maybe in the future I'll have a crush on her and I'll ask her out but I don't have a crush on her now." he looked at me, blushed and left. Does he like me or not? Should I tell him I like him?

 

Hey girl,

It sounds to me like his is crushing on you, but because he's afraid of rejection he's playing if off like it isn't true. If you like him, tell him! That might take some of the tension off and then maybe he'll fess up to his true feelings. Guys have a major fear of  rejection, so without a little assurance to the other person's feelings, they'll most likely deny theirs as well. Good luck! xoxo

Alexis G.

by hermionegirl12 on 1/7/2013 3:15:34 PM

 
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