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BY CAROL WESTON ON 2/8/2013 12:00:00 AM
POSTED IN dear carol, sexuality, I think I'm gay, bisexuality, I don't feel right in my own skin, advice from Carol Weston
I cant tell you a lot about this because I'm only 12 too. I think it's normal, I've had feelings for boys and girls, but each time I do, I end up growing out of it. xx
by delaneycatherine on 3/15/2013 3:45:39 PM
I dont judge those who are gay or bisexual & ik i sometimes get simular feelings like these too . Not really feelings for girls but unlike most people , I can tell another girl she's pretty or looks cute for the day without saying " no homo " . Lol i do like guys , but idk - maybe its because i dont care what people think of me ?
by Beautified_Jailyn on 3/7/2013 7:01:01 PM
You could always talk to a counselor about your feelings. It was explained to me that just because we have these thoughts and feelings when we are young doesnt mean you are going to feel like that forever. I think because of puberty and what we see, it influences our desires when it comes to guys and relationships. Maybe because we almost always see female bodies used for ads and selling things we think about our bodies more when it comes to sex. You dont see mens bodies being used as much and not that their bodies are ugly, or we arent curious about what they look like, we just feel we may be bi because we get these feelings when we see and think about female and male bodies.
by fashionqn on 2/13/2013 2:42:13 PM
I reported a comment, above, by accident.
by bloop116 on 2/11/2013 5:23:00 PM
There is a posibility that you are bi. My guess is that you are probably not though. I though I was bi for a while but then I realised I was in a way kind of making myself feel I was bi. I was, am, and always will be a proud LGBTQ supporter. At the time that was when I started the whole support gay thing. I was so focused on that that I led myself to believing I was bi. I wasn't though. It is normal at an age like this to have mixed emotions an feelings...especially when it comes to your sexuality. My advice is that you calm down, don't try any relationship for a while, take it easy this Valentine's Day, and see if you are any more comfortable with yourself after a while.
I hope this helps. I wish you all the best. Just join my club and advice queen if you still have questions.
by bloop116 on 2/11/2013 5:21:08 PM
by beaky54321 on 2/11/2013 3:57:37 PM
I felt the same way but then I thought about it talked to my mom n I realized I'm not. Ull figure it out don't worry
by Ayumi302 on 2/10/2013 6:47:41 PM
One of my friends is feeling the same way!
by fabina962 on 2/10/2013 11:08:22 AM
by hgrules on 2/8/2013 10:42:22 PM
by soccacheer on 2/8/2013 7:18:56 PM
I'm attracted to males and females (and presumably other genders/or the lack thereof, just never met anyone who doesn't identify as male or female) but my sexuality is fluid. I'm always attracted to males, but my level of attraction to females varies. I don't like labeling my sexuality, and I don't like people making it sound like you have to fit neatly into a little box, because no one perfectly fits into every little labeled box. If someone were to ask me I'd say that my sexuality is fluid or I'm non-heterosexual, but I don't identify as one specific thing, and that is perfectly fine. As a female, I am aware that my sexuality may, and probably will, change over time. (Female brains are wired differently, meaning female sexuality can change throughout the course of your lifetime.)
by rockinlishy on 2/8/2013 6:04:16 PM
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by nazirah817 on 2/8/2013 4:42:19 PM
by BriannaM911 on 2/8/2013 4:03:36 PM
:o yes! im not a freak for feeling the way i do ^-^ thank you person who wrote dis question XD I'm the same age as u too
by mayanunna on 2/8/2013 3:20:45 PM
There have been multiple studies that suggest girls are more bisexual than guys. This is partly why girls tend to be more touchy-feely with one another than guys are with their bros. Girls are also more likely to tell one another that they're beautiful/attractive than guys are with other guys. This is in part because they are more likely to recognize attractive features in other girls than guys with other guys. What you're feeling is totally normal and more common than most girls your age are likely to admit. Don't feel like you need to give yourself a label, though. You are who you are - what does it matter if you're gay, straight, or somewhere in between?
by MadiBird on 2/8/2013 2:33:33 PM
I'm glad somebody asked this and this magazine put it on their home page. It's a really important thing. I myself am bisexual, and I'm twelve, but I've known for a few years. Whatever you are, just know that you are special, and you deserve good treatment.
My best friend just came out to our 7th grade student body as transgender, and everybody's been really accepting of him, so if you ever become sure that you are bisexual and want to come out, kids are pretty accepting these days.
by potterheadmeetswhovian on 2/8/2013 11:45:19 AM
I think all of the TV shows and books that teens watch and read that include bisexual and gay characters get teens worried and picking apart their own sexual identities. When in reality very few people are actually bi and if you were gay you would know it. Everyone worries about this to some extent I suppose but most times it is for nothing because if you really were homosexual you would have known or started to figure that out about yourself L-O-N-G before now. I wouldn't worry! Oh and also are brains are funny/deceiving things. When we are worried or focused on something we can actual convince ourselves that it's true. Like last year when the stomach flu broke out in my school..I was so nervous about getting sick my stomach and throat actually started hurting, but it was all in my head. So, try to calm down
by maggie183 on 2/8/2013 11:09:46 AM
by WinnieGirlie on 2/8/2013 10:47:59 AM
Hey Girlie! It's normail for young people to have feelings for both boys and girls! It's all a part of growing up!
by WinterK on 2/8/2013 10:09:14 AM
I have this feeling sometimes too! I don't wont to be gay or bi, but I just have that feeling sometimes. Everyone has a little gay in them! Lol
by YouCanCallMeCat on 2/8/2013 5:40:43 AM
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