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Help! Everyone's bashing my BF


 
Almost everyone hates on my BF. They talk bad about him, and make up horrible rumors to make me break up with him. I don't believe them, and my parents and friends don't believe these rumors either and think he is an okay kid. What do I do?
 
That's a tough sitch. Luckily, your friends and fam don't believe the horrible rumors about your BF. If the people who trust and love you aren't concerned, then don't worry too much. It's great that you're surrounding yourself with a support network of friends and family who you can confide in and with whom you can discuss the hurtful rumors.

If you haven't talked to your BF about the rumors, you should consider bringing it up. Ask him if he's heard people saying untrue things. Assure him you don't believe they're true and let him know that it bothers you that people would tell lies about him. It's okay to ask him to confirm that the rumors aren't true too. Discussing your feelings with your BF will make you feel better.

Now all that's left to do is hold your head high and ignore those nasty comments. Take comfort in knowing that your BF, your BFFs and your fam have got your back. Best of luck!

BY KARIN ELWOOD ON 1/20/2013 12:00:00 AM

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ok,so I recently broke up with my boy friend and he said it was because of this other girl but the thing is when we're in class he's always starring at me like when we were dating and ontop of that on Friday were going to the movies with two other friends and ill admit I still like him but I don't know what to do because my friends don't like him that much and told me not to date him in the first place . so I don't know what to do HELP ! 😫😫

by Sofia99 on 2/28/2013 5:39:13 PM

 
 

I am friends with this really nice guy. Sometimes I think hes flirting with me but that thought makes me feel full of myself because I cant fully accept that anyone could have a crush on me. When we are alone he is very polite, but with his guy friends around hes very innapropriate. Every one makes fun of him, to which he laughs, and I think im getting feelings for him. But when I think of dating him im afraid everyone would make fun of me so im in denial about liking him and told no one about it.He has a lot of female friens and that makes me jelious. Does that make me a bad person or friend? Sorry its soo long.

by Quietfriend1415 on 2/10/2013 8:59:24 PM

 
 



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I'm dating this guy, and he's really sweet, but I feel like I can't breath. He texts me all the time. I'm not even exaggerating. From the moment I wake up to the moment I go to sleep he texts me. Is that normal? How much should a girlfriend and boyfriend text? Am I being a bad girlfriend?

 

hey Chica, Do you mean he is smothering you? You might ask him for some space, wait a few minutes before you respond to a text, and tell him you need a girls' day to go out with your buds and you won't be able to talk to him. He'll eventually ease up.

 

Hannah H. 


Hannah H.

by 500935 on 1/24/2013 3:15:16 PM

 
 

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My crush asked me out. Yay, right? Wrong. I've been crushing on him since I met him (which was last summer,) and I was kind of getting that he liked me back. But, the thing is, I NEVER see him. Even though we live in the same town. I met him at camp last year, and he gave me his number at the end of the week. So we text a lot. When he asked me out, I was SO excited. But then, of course, I'm not allowed to date. UNTIL I'M 18. I really like each other, so I don't know what to do. All I told him is that I couldn't go, so he has no idea I can't date. How do I subtly let him know? I would feel really stupid, and be embarrassed, just telling him.


Hey girlie,

I would just tell him the truth! If you tell him you're not allowed to date, you won't hurt his feelings and you'll be honest with him. I'm sure he'll respect your mom's wishes! Maybe you could compromise with her by going on a group date or having him over for dinner, but you should be honest with both your mom and him!

Meghan D.

by graciegang on 1/21/2013 8:30:14 PM

 
 



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I felt so sad all last week and all today I just feel so
Annoyed and sad I keep thinking about having a boyfriend
It really bothers me so much I know it shouldn't but it does everyone I know
Is with someone and I'm not I'm definitely not excited for valentines day
The only thing I'm excited about is a party I'm having I hate feeling this
Way about boys I feel so desperate but it's the truth I do feel lonely and I am sad
I'm just so irritated and sad but I don't like feeling this way
I feel like no one understands why I'm so upset Please help me thanks

Hey girl, it really stinks when it feels like you're the only one without a BF for V-day.  Trust us, we've all been there.  But try your best not to let it get ya down.  Being single can be really wonderful- get that positive energy flowing by checkin' out this sweet playlist.  If you're still feelin' down, confide in a parent or a good friend. 


Karin E.

by redvelvetluv on 1/21/2013 3:22:41 PM

 
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