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What makes a bud a bestie? Real girls tell all!

 

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Sure, boys are great, but they can’t beat a good bestie. It doesn’t matter what ya call them—your best friend, your BFF, your sistah, your other self—they rock, period. We asked GL readers to tell us what makes their best friend so special. And here’s what you said…

 

 

“My best friend remembers what's important to me and supports me through everything. I can't be embarrassed around her, she’s comfortable with my family, and we randomly do nice things for each other.” – Adella C., 14

 

“A good friend you can hang out with and have fun with, but a best friend you can tell anything to and you know that no matter how bad things get they'll be by your side.” – Andrea V., 13

 

“A good friend is someone that you smile when you see, that can make you laugh, and that understands you need alone time. A best friend, on the other hand, is a partner in crime, someone to make you laugh and help you cry, someone who always forgets the trivial things but never forgets the important things, someone who loves you even when they hate you, someone who you care about more than they'll ever know, someone who keeps your secrets, someone who never respects your personal space but always respects your personal choices. Your best friend is the family member that you chose.” – Kate B., 14

 

“A good friend always celebrates the goods time with you. A best friend is always there for you during the bad times.” – Maggie L., 17

 

“A good friend you really like. A best friend you love.” – Rachel Y., 14

 

“A good friend tells you it'll be OK when you're embarrassed. A best friend does something equally as embarrassing to make you laugh and forget.” – Jenny T., 14

 

“A good friend is just someone you sit at lunch with at school or talk to on Facebook. A best friend is someone you call on the phone and talk to them while watching the same channel because you can’t be with them for real.” – Kaley Z., 11

 

What do YOU think is the difference between a good friend and a best friend? Tell us in the comments!

BY BRITTANY TAYLOR ON 1/22/2013 4:16:00 PM

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There is this girl who i thought was my bff. She got into an argument with our other bestfriend and they said they werent friends anymore. When they weren't friends she stopped talking to me and stopped hanging out with me and acted like it was all my fault. so then they made up but she still doesnt talk to me as much and doesnt joke around with me as much as before. we dont even hang out anymore. idk if she still wants to be friends or not. i asked her if she hated me and she said no and that she would try to talk to me alot more. but she is talking to me LESS than before. Help!

 

Hey girlie, have a real conversation with her. Figure out what's bothering her and why she hasn't been paying so much attention to you. Explain to her that whatever she thinks is your fault isn't and see if you two can find a way to start over and be friends again.  


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by orangutanluver101 on 5/5/2013 8:58:55 PM

 
 

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me and my bff are no longere friends because she dumped me too be populer. But now she is spreading rumors and saying she never really liked me. should i confront her?

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Ouch, I'm so sorry your former friend is saying those things! I think the best thing to do would be to be the bigger person and ignore her, because eventually those rumors will go away and people will forget about them. If it's a big problem, though, you could talk to a trusted adult like a parent or guidance counselor about how to deal with her at school. And try introducing yourself to some new girls in your class or clubs, because I'm sure there are tons of people who want to be friends with you! Smile

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by 513520cb on 4/13/2013 9:21:07 PM

 
 

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I moved and i'm going to visit my old school, where all my BFFs go. i'm really nervous. Should I show them how i've changed or come how I was before I left?

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by MileyandSamantha on 3/25/2013 1:23:48 PM

 
 



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This girl & I've been BFFS for 7 yrs.Lately,i`ve been embarrassed 2 be seen with her.The whole school hates her and calls her weird and annoying,cuz she is.She`s nosy, butting in on others' business,talking to everyone like they`re best frndz.She can ask anyone 4 anything,talk to anyone abt anything.She talks 2 much and embarrasses me in front of my new frndz.She doesnt let me talk 2 'em and drags me away.She cant keep any secrets and doesnt really care abt the way she looks.she acts too old 4 her age at times,and makes me feel uncomfortable.my 'rents think shes still the nice lil girl and ask me abt her.She also tries 2 be part of the popular crowd,and has no self respect.Ppl constantly tell her 2 get lost but she still sticks around.I am really diff.,sorta wellknown,whereas she's just a dork.I can't stand her anymore.She wont listen to me so i cant talk 2 her.What do i do?this whole business is shameful and awkward.i wanna get away but i dont wanna lose an ol' frnd.

 

 

 

Hey Chica, I know it's frustrating but the most important thing is making sure that you're still friendly. Even if you don't want to hang out often you still need to be nice. Instead of talking to her about changing her behavior, explain to your new friends that you can;t just ditch her.

 

Hannah H. 


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by pinklilac on 3/12/2013 7:13:20 AM

 
 



MODMODMOD my bff and i have been growing apart ever since she started dating her boyfriend. She became friends with one of her bf's friends gf. So she is now kindda replacing me with her. I mean i love her to death she is my bffl but i dont think she wants to be friends anymore. I have never had many friends so when i lose one there is a huge impact on my life.How can i fix my friendship without hurting her feelings. Becaue sometimes i just want to scream at her Hello i am right here talk to me1

 

Hey girlie, talk to her about it. She might be doing it without realizing it, so you need to let her know that it hurts your feelings and make sure she's aware of what she's doing. If that doesn't change the way she's acting then she's not a true friend and it might be time for you to let her go.


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by brbsbranum on 3/11/2013 7:56:18 PM

 
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