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There's this guy in my grade and he's really sweet to me. He would flirt with me a little sometimes, and I thought he liked me. Then, I found out he doesn't over the holidays. Now we're back in school, and he still acts like he likes me. He's made me really confused. I don't know what to do anymore. My friends think he's realized that he really does like me, but I'm afraid to believe it because I don't want my heart broken again. Please help.

Hey girl! Geeze, guys can be so frustrating sometimes. First things first, figure whether or not you like this guy. If your answer is, "no way, not anymore," then just ignore his flirty advances. If you're sure you've moved on, then there's nothing to worry about. However, chances are that things are a bit more complicated.

If you think you still may have feelings for him, have a heart-to-heart with him. Find a time to talk with him when you're not surrounded by your crew or his, and 'fess up how his signals confuse you. Ask him if he likes you or if he's just being super friendly. But if you ask him if he likes you, be prepared to answer the same question. This might be a tough convo to have, especially if you're both unsure of your feelings, but this should settle it fast.

Another path you can take is to just sit back and play the flirting game. This gives both more time to figure out if you like each other or not. Whatever you choose to do, keep trustworthy friends at your side. You got this.

BY KARIN ELWOOD ON 1/26/2013 12:00:00 AM

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So, I like this guy, and we're pretty good friends. My BFFs recently brought that out into the open. There is one final dance before the year ends, and he moves schools next year. Is it worth asking him to the dance, and if so, is there a way I can ask him without saying it face to face?

Hey girlie, you should absolutely ask him! Just ask him in person when you're hanging out one day. Be casual about it and ask him to go as friends if that makes you more comfortable.

Lauren T.

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by fencerforever on 4/29/2013 8:21:00 PM

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Okay, so there's this guy at my school. I really like him, but he's my bgf and I want to tell him that i like him, but at the same time I'm worried about ruining our friendship. What do I do????

Hey purplecupcake411, first prepare yourself for rejection. He may reject you simply because he doesn't want to ruin your friendship either. If he is interested in taking your relationship a step further, be sure you two promise to always remain friends no matter what happens. Hope this helps! Xoxo

Lynae P.

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by purplecupcake411 on 4/23/2013 6:30:50 PM

Boys are so confusing

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by izzy1025 on 3/19/2013 8:34:55 PM

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My crush and I are really close. My friend reckons he likes me, but I'm not sure. He sometimes walks with me to classes or the bus stop. We talk to each other if we can. He flirts with me and everything but he said he used to be a player. I still really like him, but I'm afraid he might go back to his old ways. I never thought he was a player since he is really nice and everything. Help?
Thank you so much!

Hey girlie,

If he's nice to you and you get along well, I would go with that instead of what other people say. Rumors are often not true, and it's more important that you rely on what you have experienced for yourself instead of on hearsay! But if he does anything mean to you, you definitely deserve better and should move on to someone who respects you 100%. Good luck girlie!

Meghan D.

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by PeculiarGurl on 3/17/2013 12:24:30 AM

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so this guy asked me out last year, i didn't really like him but i said yes cause i felt bad if i said no. we broke up like 5 days late. I wasn't ready for a relationship. he then asked me out like 3 other times after that, i said yes cause i felt bad. but this year i think i'm ready for a bf and i have a full blown crush now. The problem is i think he may have moved on but there's other times i think he may still like me. So is there anyway to maybe get him to like me again or possibly ask me out again. thanks (p.s i'm shy so i'm not really that outgoing)

Hey girlie,

Even if you don't want to be mean, it's better to be honest with him up front than to lead a guy on by dating him! You can turn him down politely -- just say that you're not interested in a relationship or that you only want to be friends. That way, he can move on too, and you can talk to your crush if you want to

Meghan D.

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by toribear101 on 3/15/2013 9:04:03 PM