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Should you still hang out with your ex?


 
 
Hey girl! There’s a lot that goes into a BF/GF relationship, and it isn’t always easy to throw that away. If you’re dating, you’re not only spending hours together hanging out, but you also respect, trust and support each other. Now aren’t those the same qualities you look for in a friend?
 
There is a reason that after a breakup the first words that are spoken are often, “I hope we can still be friends.” It isn’t a cliché—they’re usually said because they’re true. That is, unless your ex is just trying to let you down easy and he wants to spare your feelings. But if it was a healthy and happy relationship, there is no reason why you can’t split on friendly terms.
 
Still, hanging with your ex can create quite a few sticky sitches. What if you start to crush on him again? He can’t get over you? Or if your new beau doesn’t like you hanging with him? The answer: Keep the relationship light and easy, and always give him some space for a few weeks after the breakup. Always keep in mind your feelings and the feelings of those around you. There’s no sense in hurting anybody just because you’ve kept in contact with your ex.  
 
 

BY HANNAH HICKLEN ON 2/3/2013 10:00:00 AM

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ok, this is my 3rd time asking this question on mod but it hasnt been answered yet and I seriously need help with it!! ok, so ive been dating this super sweet, super polite guy for a month. the thing is is that we rarely see eachothr! its sad! but when I do see him, everything melts away and it's perfect!!but I find it hard to talk to him, like its awkward.. idk! and then there's this one guy, and I see him all the time and we constantly talk about anything and everything, and we flirt like CRAZY. and sometimes I find him looking at me! but I asked him out when I first met him and he turned me down! but I know for sure he likes me! and he's so obviously a better match for me but I don't want to break up with my current bf for another guy! that's so mean! but I like the one that im not dating soooo much! we r perfect for eachother! but I don't want to get turned down again! pleaseeee help me! what should I do????????? thanks!

 

Hey lalalagurl, is it possible for you to see your bf more? Do you guys go to different schools? Leave in separate cities? Xoxo Smile  


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by lalalagurl on 2/8/2013 6:59:40 PM

 
 



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SO Valentine's Day is coming up! But this guy in my class likes me, and apparently wants to ask me out! He never talks to me because he is too shy, and I don't really want to go out with him. How do I let him down nicely? All my friends just tell me to say: "I don't want a boyfriend right now", but the truth is, I wouldn't mind if my crush asked me out (; and I don't want to lie to him.




Hey girlie! Sounds like you're in a dilemma. Honestly, the most straightforward and honest approach is usually best. If he does approach you, just let him know that you like him as a friend, but that you're not really interested in anything more. Good luck! 
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by yasminnadia on 2/8/2013 6:22:13 AM

 
 

Proceed with Caution!
I would be careful hanging out with your ex especially if you were in a serious relationship with him. And dont even think about it if you were intimate with him because the temptations are too great, unless you really really dislike him and then why would you even want to hang out with him. I learned this from a close friends who has cheated on her new bf with her ex more than once and she claims she cant help herself. So I would be careful.

by fashionqn on 2/5/2013 5:14:57 PM

 
 

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So I like this guy, but he likes someone else. I asked my BGF to ask my crush who he liked, and we both thought it was gonna be me. But instead, he likes this girl who loves it when guys give her attention and is slowly becoming a snob. She's nice at times, but I just don't think that they were for each other. Apparently, I'm also not really suppose to know who my crush likes. And he also told my BGF that he hates it when I text him too much. Um... HELP?!?!?!?!

Hey girlie,

If he likes someone else, maybe you should do the same. I know it might be hard at first, but there are a lot of other guys who would love to spend time with you, so try getting to know someone you might not usually think of! And if he says you text him too much, maybe let him text you first next time.

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by megagirrl on 2/4/2013 6:14:10 PM

 
 

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by nazirah817 on 2/4/2013 9:04:13 AM

 
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