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This guy asked me out, and I turned him down. In person, he says he’s OK with it. But he e-mails me about why I won’t go out with him. How can I tell him to get over it?


Bill: Apparently, his ego is damaged, so he’s having trouble dealing with the fact that you don’t want to go out with him. You could go the sneaky, avoid-him route and change your e-mail address. But unless he’s harassing you, that’s not cool. Your best bet is to set him straight. E-mail him, explaining that you want to keep things on a friendship-only basis. Hopefully, he’ll get the message loud and clear, and you can stay pals.


Dave: Bill’s right. But once you’ve clearly stated you’re not interested in going out, if he continues to bug you, that is not only annoying—it’s disrespectful. Yes, his ego has taken a bruising but, if the harassment continues, don’t respond to his e-mails, and get a parent to help you block him from contacting you.


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I talked to this guy at my church that I have a crush on. We talked alot and it seemed like he was flirty with me.
I asked him if he was suppose to be serving dinner to adults downstairs. He pointed to a pizza stain on his shirt and said he couldn't. I asked him of course, being the idiot I am, if he wiped it with a wash cloth, and he said yes. I asked him why he just didn't go down. I swear he looked me in the eye, smirked and said, Because God wants me to be up here. I mean of course my imagination on the smirk, yet he was looking me in the eye.
But after that, that wednesday, he kept giving me a look and kept walking were I was. He keeps going everywhere where I am going. Does he like me? Or is he just being friendly? I've seen him stare at me to.

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by britishirishcreme on 4/13/2013 8:21:32 PM

 
 

theres this guy in my class, my best friend started liking him about a year after i did...i never told her though and she still doesnt know....so lets call him "C," so "C" is in a couple in my classes and he always stands really close to me and is VERY flirty like when im sitting in my HR seat he will walk over and sit on my lap because my friends are his friends as well...also "C," will shut off my computer(kind of an inside joke) but to do that he has to reach across me because he ALWAYS sits next to me...and one of his friends told me he liked me once but he never really brought it up...but to my best friend hes really distent and goes over her house sometimes to play with his twin brother...i really like "C" but im afraid if he does ask me out eventually if i should say no because of my friend or yes because ive liked him for over a year and its one of my biggest fantasys

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by sophie2629 on 3/25/2013 7:29:51 PM

 
 

Ok so I like this guy and I don't know if he likes me back. He all of a sudden started telling me I was beautiful and he's always thought that. Then he told me my make-up was pretty and I smelled good. Also, I jokingly punch him and he made me kiss it. When we were at a party together I sat down next to him and he accidentally touch my arm and I said be careful I'm ticklish then he started tickling me. I'm in yearbook and I was interviewing him and asked what he was going to miss most and he said me, but then went right into saying something else. Everyone who has seen us together thinks we like each other but I don't know what he's thinking.

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by Kenny28 on 3/15/2013 6:40:14 PM

 
 

I have a problem with a guy, he is two of my close friends ex boyfriend. Last week on a Wednesday He told me that he still loved them. then later we had a group together and her started talking about how he was thinking about them and me. He said he was trying to figure out who he loved and who he considered family. Of course I thought he still loved them and I was like a sister to him. But of course, he said that THEY were the family. BUT I DONT LIKE HIM LIKE THAT!!!! And he cant tell that! WHAT DO I DO!?!?!

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by KittyKaz on 3/3/2013 6:46:38 PM

 
 

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My crush talks to me plenty in the one class i have with him, but i never know what to respond! any tips on being less nervous so i can think of what to say right away?

Hey girlie,

Maybe think of it as a conversation with a friend instead of with your crush, and you will be less nervous because you can respond the way you would to a friend. You will get more comfortable around him the more you two talk Smile

Meghan D.

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by Casey_cookie on 3/2/2013 10:36:31 PM

 
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