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When I like a guy, everyone knows it. I talk with the guy and joke around because I’m very outgoing. How can I make my intentions less obvious but still get the guy to like me?

 

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Theres this guy i like and im sure he likes my friend. He gave her his number and email and it bothers me but i also feel so happy for her! Does he like her or is he being nice?

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by YannaRox on 3/18/2013 9:16:49 PM

 
 

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Ok. So a guy and I have a huge thing and we've had it for like two years. We were talking and I dot know what I said but we were talking about being spoiled. And he said if we got married I would spoil you and our kids rotten. Well. I don't want to get married. And I don't want him to waste his time on me. And he also said I was in his dreams. I guess what I'm saying is. He scared me to death. I don't know how to tell him we aren't getting married. And I just don't know what to do. Please help. I'm scared. And really freaked out.

Hey girlie,

It's totally normal to not want to think about marriage when it is so far away--you're so young and definitely don't need to be planning that far ahead! You could just tell him that you like spending time with him but aren't ready to talk about long-term plans and that you want to take things slow. He should understand and appreciate that!

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by Cet on 3/17/2013 12:59:34 AM

 
 

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So there is this guy who likes me but he's kind of a flirt and a player but I talked to him about it and he denies being a player but he admits he's a flirt.I hear negative things about him but when I talk to him he is really sweet. We kinda hang out with the same pople so these people know him better than do. What should I do?

Hey girlie,

If he's nice to you, I would go by how he acts around you and not by his reputation. Rumors are often hearsay, so if he's nice to you that's what counts (though if he does anything mean to you, you should get out of the relationship!). If you like him, don't worry about what other people think!

Meghan D.

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by xXWhoYouAreXx on 3/16/2013 12:58:58 AM

 
 

Alright so I liked this guy. And i was pretty sure he liked me back, i mean he made it obvious! At the school dance we even slow-danced together for every slow song. The day we came back, everyone was talking about it and asking me if we had a "thing." He was super flirty, and would talk about the dance like it was the best thing ever. But for the past two days, he has barely talked to me, and is flirting with another girl right in front of me! I was wondering why he does that! I thought it might be because i have some guy friends who i am pretty close with and he might be jealous? I dont know, but it makes me mad! I really do like him, but if he keeps this up, i'm not sure its worth it. Also what can I do? Because when i see him flirt with other people, it makes me ignore him, so thats probably making it worse!

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by graceloehr21 on 3/13/2013 7:34:32 PM

 
 

You are right, sometimes being outgoing and forward will get you the guy. My friends and I have this saying that waiting for some guys is like waiting for water to freeze, so there are times you have to make a move because they wont. The worst thing is to like a guy and he does nothing and you do nothing and then he ends up being with someone else and you wished you did something to be with him.

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by fashionqn on 3/13/2013 1:38:28 PM

 
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