made it through a first date! And you know what that means. To go on a
second date or not to go on a second date? We've made a list of some
signs to help guide you to making the best decision. Do you go for it
or walk away? The choice is yours, but first, consult our 6
3 signs that say nopers
You don't like him.
This might seem
like common sense, but it's def worth considering. Forget what your
friends or your fam thinks and make a decision based on your own
feelings. So what if your mom thinks he's polite or your friends think
he's cute? It's your decision, not anyone else's. If you're not
feeling it, it's donezo.
You're taking the hint.
If you get a
vibe that he's just not that into you during date #1, don't sweat it.
This is part of going on first dates, sometimes things don't click. If
neither of you suggests going out again, then just leave it at that. Why pursue something with someone who is less-than crazy about ya? It's not worth it.
He transforms into an awkward turtle.
The date went
great but then he starts ignoring you or acts like it never happened. Well, that's not cool. No second date happening here. If he makes you
feel weird about the fact that you went out, it's time to move on.
3 signs that say yeppers
He's workin' the word clues.
If you like him
and he suggests that the two of you should go out again sometime,
excellent. If you sense that he really means it, do make plans to hang
out in the future. It's okay to get specific and ask him what he'd like
to do (for your second date!). Clarifying plans now will help avoid
getting lost in textlation later.
You're still getting to know each other.
The first date
went well, but you feel like you still have a lot to learn about this
guy. No worries, just sched a date #2. This gives you more time to
think about how you feel and you get more time together. Perf.
The first date was a fairytale.
things work out splendidly. If you and your date are both delighted
with date #1, of course a second date is in order. Have fun! We hope
you celebrate with a li'l happy post-date dance partay in your room.
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BY KARIN ELWOOD ON 4/28/2013 12:00:00 AM
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