My BF and I have been dating for a
year now. Things are going great, except there's a girl who has the BIGGEST
crush on him! One day she went to his house and KISSED him—right in front of
me! I'm sick and tired of this girl. Can you help me somehow?
Hey girlie! OK so even though this is a very sticky
situation, do not panic. You and your BF
have been together for a long time, so I am sure you will get this figured
out. In order to make you feel better
about your relationship and to keep this girl away you will need to have a
mature conversation with both this girl and your boyfriend. Here are some options to use when discussing
how you feel with both of them.
How to approach your
He should know how upset and threatened you feel from this
girl. Even though he might have no feelings for her, it is still very
upsetting. You need to let him know that it is totally not OK with you if he lets her spend time around him. You should also ask him to explain how they
happened to KISS! I hope that he did everything he could to get that girl out
of his house. In the end, you need to make it clear to your BF that if anything
like this happens again, it’s grounds for breaking up.
How to deal with the
Remember that while talking to her you need to stay strong
and not show how threatened you feel. But, you do need to tell firmly her to
back off. Start off by telling her that
if she had any respect for your boyfriend or herself, then she would not try to
have him cheat on you. It just makes her look horrible. By confronting her, it
will show her how strong you are and how much your relationship means to you.
If nothing changes after talking to your BF and this girl,
you will have to determine whether or not you will dump him. Having to tell him
to stay away from this girl is a major sign that he isn’t right for you. Find a
guy who respects you and your
relationship. You deserve it.
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BY ELIZABETH KUNTZ ON 6/9/2013 12:00:00 AM
POSTED IN guys, dating advice, GL's best guy advice, boyfriend Q & A, cheating 411