Is there that one guy that you would do anything to get him
to notice you? Make sure you think about what you’re doing before you do it, so
you don’t regret your actions later on. Here are some major no-nos that you
should never pull.
Don’t manipulate him.
Manipulating people is a terrible way to get what you want in any sitch,
especially when it comes to guys. If you manipulate your guy, he’ll only be
giving you attention out of guilt. Who wants that? This method is hurtful and
toxic, which will just leave him resenting you in the long run.
Do let things happen
naturally. Let’s face it: You can’t control other people. Just take a deep
breath, go with the flow and see how things turn out.
Don’t act dumb. For
some reason, there are girls who think they need to act dumb to get boys to
like them. This couldn’t be further from the truth! Guys don’t want to date a
ditz, so don’t dumb yourself down to get his attention. If you really think the
only way your crush will like you is if you pretend to be dumb, then he isn’t
Do embrace your brains.
If you’re smart and worried that you might intimidate him, just be sure you
don’t make him feel dumb by talking down to him. That means no boasting about
your grades or intelligence.
Don’t lie. Not
only is it bad to hide your smarts, but lying in general is never a good way to
impress someone. Even if you don’t think you have the coolest life, lying about
it won’t help you out your love life. Odds are, he’ll find out the truth eventually.
Do be honest. Starting
a solid relationship starts off with being honest. There’s no point in being in
a relationship if he doesn’t know who you truly are.
Don’t break your
moral code. Everyone has certain things that they think of as right and
wrong. Be sure that you don’t stray from this for a boy. If he isn’t willing to
respect your boundaries, don’t feel like you need to break them to impress him.
Do what you feel is
right. Any guy who is worth your time will respect you and won’t pressure
you to do something that you don’t want to do.
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BY CAROLINE MACLURE ON 6/15/2013 12:00:00 AM
POSTED IN guys, dating advice, GL's best guy advice, how to get a BF, crush crash course, playing it cool, pressure to get physical, get his attention now