My ex begged me to go back out with him and I said yes. Two hours later he dumped me. What’s up with that?
His Answer: “I’d say he is confused and can't make up his mind,” reveals Sam M., 18. “He just wants to feel like he has power in the relationship so he toyed with her.”
Decoded: His desire to be in control is one of the most immature things a guy can do to a girl. The need for power could be covering up hidden insecurities that he may have. If he really wanted you back and wanted to be with you, the boy wouldn’t have been a jerk in the first place.
Your Move: Move on, girl! This kid sounds like a real jerk and needs to do some growing up if he wants another chance with you. The more mature and calm you appear, the more he’ll want to mimic your mood, so he can seem like the one that’s cool and collected. In his race to be the best, he’ll realize how stupidly he acted.
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BY LEXI FRIED ON 7/12/2013 10:00:00 AM
POSTED IN guys, dating advice, GL's best guy advice, dealing with a breakup, ex boyfriend Q & A, weird guy stuff, mean