I play on a soccer team and my coach is very young—19. He’s cool and down-to-earth. I don’t know if I am forming a crush on him or not. I mean, I love him as a coach. I don’t know what I am feeling inside. How do I control my confused heart and mind?
Dear Coach Crush,
You might have a crush on your coach, and that is not
unusual or the end of the world. Enjoy your feelings without being ashamed or
tortured, but don’t act on those emotions. While it’s hard to control your
mind, it’s crucial to control your actions. Of course, it’s the coach’s job to
act responsibly. If he pursues girls on the team, he could get fired or even
arrested. Don’t jeopardize his livelihood by putting him in a compromising
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BY CAROL WESTON ON 9/4/2013 12:00:00 AM
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