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You and your bestie are growing apart? Here's how to deal


When you hear someone talking about a break-up, it doesn’t necessarily have to be of the romantic variety. As you and your BFF get older, there’s a chance that you two will grow apart, which is totally normal. So sometimes, BFFs can split too. And while there are tons of reasons why you and your bestie could be heading to Splitsville, getting there is not a fun trip at all. We’ve got some tips on how to either save you two from crashing, or tame the trip to your break-up.

 

Find out if your relationship is worth saving

Fighting is totally normal when it comes to relationships, both romantic and friendships. But too much fighting is not a good sign. If you feel that the negative parts of your relationship outweigh the positives then it’s probably your best bet to let your BFF go. As sad as it may be, you’ll most likely be better off without her.

 

Don’t get other friends involved

It’s perfectly fine to turn to other people for advice when you and your BFF are heading towards a break-up, but try going to someone that isn’t friends with her too. Not only is it tough for them to choose a side, but it could also ruin their friendship with either you or your BFF. Oh, and be sure to avoid putting the drama on any social media site. This will only make you look catty, and will add fuel to the already burning fire.

 

Remember it’s OK to be upset

Just like any break-up, losing someone that was close to you could be tough. If you decide that it’s time for you and your BFF to split, it’s okay to be upset – you can cry, yell, or do whatever will make you feel better. And just like any other break-up, you’ll eventually be ready to move on.

 

Find out where the fighting is coming from

If you do decide that your friendship is worth saving, do some analyzing and figure out where your fighting is starting. Maybe it’s you, and you can apologize. Maybe it’s her, and you can tell her how you’re feeling. Either way, you have to get to the root of your problems, or you’ll never be able to fix ‘em.

BY KATHRYN TAKACS ON 8/17/2013 12:00:00 AM

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