Since my ex and I broke up, I’ve changed a lot. I’m more confident, and I’ve gotten taller and lost weight. Recently, my ex started flirting with me again. I still like him, but I’m scared that he’s only flirting with me because of the way I look. What do you think?
Bill: We don’t have time to get into the details, but you should think back on why you broke up. You may have changed physically, but you probably haven’t changed emotionally. And he may not have changed at all. As you get more used to the “new you,” you’ll keep gaining confidence, and be able to choose a BF who’s right for you.
Dave: If you dated prior to your transformation, there’s no reason to think your ex has returned just because of your looks. Getting over someone you care about is a hard thing to do. Maybe he has grown—physically and/or mentally—and wants to have another chance with a special person in his life.
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BY BILL AND DAVE ON 9/30/2013 12:00:00 AM
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