My crush sees me as one of the guys. I try to flirt with him, but he doesn't notice. What should I do?
His Answer: “Sounds like you're in the friendzone, but that's not a bad place to be,” says Cal M., 16. “Keep working on your friendship and be yourself.”
Decoded: Even though you really like him, this guy only thinks of you as a friend. He likes you and values your friendship, which is important and shows that you’re nice and fun to be around. But right now, he doesn’t see you in a romantic way.
Your Move: Try to up your flirt game a li’l. Think: Touching his arm and laughing when he makes a joke or—gulp—tell him how ya really feel. If that doesn’t work, set your sights on other guys in your eyeline. You know, not one who sees you as one of the guys.
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BY HANNAH MESHULAM ON 8/30/2013 12:00:00 AM
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