Some days my crush will flirt with me a little, then the next day will be flirting with someone else and not even talk to me! What should I do?
His Answer: “You need to let him know you’re into him,” Eric L., 15 reveals. “If he feels like you’re not into him, he’ll just flirt with other girls. He’s a guy; we’re all clueless.”
Decoded: Just like girls, guys crush on people all the time. But unfortunately, some dudes don’t pick up on those mushy, butterfly-inducing feelings as much as girls do. Like Eric L. says, guys can definitely be clueless. You crush might not be completely clueless. It might simply be something else, like lack of confidence, that’s stopping him from taking your flirtationship to the next level.
Your Move: To get things movin’ with your crush, you gotta take the first step. We know this is totally scary, but if you’re really into him then it’ll def be worth it. Kick the flirting up a notch by texting him if you’re not already. Post silly comments on his Insta and Vine to make him laugh, too. If things are going smoothly, you can even set up a group hang sesh if you have mutual friends so you don’t have to experience an awkward one-on-one hang sesh.
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BY SYDNEY ADAMSON ON 3/28/2014 3:00:00 PM
POSTED IN guys, dating advice, GL's best guy advice, how to get a BF, how to flirt, crush crash course, weird guy stuff, playing it cool