Help! My BF told everyone we kissed--but we didn't!
My boyfriend is going to all his friends and saying that I'm a great
kisser. We've only been going out for a week. I haven't even kissed him on the
cheek! What should I tell him?
Dave: “See ya!” is the first thing that comes
to mind. Sometimes you can learn about someone’s overall character from a
single incident. If he’s randomly blabbing to others about untruths a week into
going out with you, is that likely to change? If you are willing to turn the
other check—before it’s even been pecked—and give him a second chance, go for
it…but don’t be surprised if this happens again.
Bill: Tell him that you don't appreciate
spreading rumors. Even if he did have first-hand knowledge of your kissing
prowess, you expect him to keep it private. Unless he agrees, tell him he'll
never find out what kind of kisser you are.
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