Why you should make the first move and ask him out
I was all ready to ask out the guy I’ve been crushing on for years, but my friend told me that he’d decline because saying yes to a girl makes him look weak. Is this true?
Dave: I’d say the answer to that question is a definite no. If a girl asks me out, I’m always flattered and if I’m even the least bit interested I accept. I’m actually attracted to girls who take some initiative and make the first move.
Bill: I’m sure there are guys out there who turn girls down because they’re afraid of how it makes them look. But likely, these are the dudes you don’t want to be dating, anyway. If you’ve known your crush for years, you’ve probably figured out which category he falls into. And if he seems like the type to take you up on your offer, why not ask him out?
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