New year, old crush: Should I rekindle the flame with my ex?

I went out with a great guy for a few months, then I moved. It’s been a year, and now I’m moving back. I still love him, but what if he’s changed or likes someone else? Should I try to go out with him or just lay low?
Bill: Wow! A year with no texts? No letters? Messages in a bottle? Maybe you should send him an FB message to catch up before you return. That might give you a clue about how he feels for you. Better to know what you’re up against.
Dave: You never know—perhaps your ex hasn’t been in touch because he’s worried you have a boyfriend. But, Bill is right: Find out the situation before having visions of picking up where you left off.


by Bill and Dave | 2/1/2016