Ask Lucky: Dance Date vs. BFF


There’s a dance coming up, and I really want to invite this guy from my homeroom. But I think my BFF likes him too! I know she’ll never ask him because she’s way too shy. Should I go for it anyway?


One dance isn’t worth losing a friend. You totally need to talk to her before asking this boy out—it’s the cool thing to do. Tell her you’d love this cutie to be your date but that you’re concerned she might want to invite him. Make sure she’d be OK with you asking him to the dance.


Tell her your friendship is important and that you will fully respect her feelings if she doesn’t want you to date him. If she’s all right with it, be sure to include her in the evening’s festivities. Does your crush have a friend who could double with you guys? Keep everything low-key, and no PDA with this guy (you know, public displays of affection) because that would be way uncool.


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4/14/2009 7:00:00 AM
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