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All my BFFs go out on double dates or group dates, and don’t ask me to join them because I don’t have a BF. I feel hurt and left out. Should I say something?

Sure, talk to them about it. I doubt they exclude you on purpose. Chances are, your friends assume you don’t want to hang with all couples and be a spare wheel. Explain that you don’t resent them for having BFs and don’t care about being dateless, but that you feel you’re missing out on some fun. I’m pretty sure they will invite you on their next outing once they get that the couples thing is no biggie to you. Heck, ask if any of their BFs have a friend who could come along…who knows?

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5/12/2009 7:00:00 AM