Bullied by a boy

Lately, I've had a hard time in school. There's this one guy who said he would call me every bad word he knew if he were allowed. Once, I was trying to help a teacher and he pushed me into a row of desks - it was so hard that two fell over. The teacher, who was watching the whole thing, just went back to her work.


The boy who's doing all of this stuff to me is in every single one of my classes (even gym and art), and I live a block away from him. On top of all of this, someone hacked into my lunch account a week ago and took ten dollars. We tried calling the school, but they never returned the call. Do you have any ideas on how to solve this?


Hey girl, this def sounds like a sticky sitch. Unfortunately, there always seems to be a token bully or meanie in every class. Although it is always best to try to ignore them, when that doesn't work, it means it's time to move on to plan B.

 

First, it sounds like the teacher hasn't done much to help this prob. I would say that its time to get the 'rents involved. Have your mom talk to the  teacher and see if she can set up a parent/teacher conference with this boy's parents as well. When his parents find out that this boy is tormenting you, they'll be sure to set him straight! However, if this bully is still making you miserable, go straight to the principal. It sounds like he needs some stern structure to turn his act around!

 

Also, talk to your BFFs about what this boy is doing. Its nice to know that no matter what, they'll always have your back. Knowing that your BFFs are by your side will make you feel less intimidated. As for the lunch money, try getting your 'rents to go in and talk to the principal face to face.

 

It sounds like you have a bully who for some reason is stuck on you, but don't let your peers bring you down. Remember that you always have your 'rents and BFFs to lean on in these sitches. Don't let a bully get the best of you or he wins! Keep your head high and just dazzle 'em with your confidence. You can do it!


-Jackie E.

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6/4/2009 7:00:00 AM
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