Ask Lucky: Party Pooper...?

A classmate invited me to a party, but we’re hardly friends. I don’t want to go, and I don’t want to be her BFF.
How do I let her down?

It’s OK if you don’t want to go to her party, but could you be jumping to conclusions by assuming she wants to be your BFF?
You’re not the only person invited. It’s a party – you might have a good time, and maybe some of your friends will be there.

If you go and you’re having a terrible time, you’re free to leave. Just come up with a nice excuse like, “Thank you for inviting me to your party. Unfortunately, my mom asked that I be home early, so she’s picking me up.” Give the girl a chance. Heck, you might even wind up with a good friend.

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6/9/2009 7:00:00 AM