Mixed signals: Does he think of me as his BFF or GF?

I’ve had a crush on this guy for months. We see each other almost every day and hold hands often. We have lunch, see movies and do practically everything together! I call him, and he’s at my house in like a minute. So, the other day I asked him who his best friend is and he said I am. I was extremely flattered…but also confused. I thought he liked me as a GF. What’s up?


BILL: Isn’t man’s best friend supposed to be a dog? But you don’t hold hands with your pet so, obviously, this guy is serious about you. Maybe he’s moved past the stage of shyly professing attraction to the much higher stage of professing affection. Consider it a compliment. Pat him on the head and say, “Good boy!”


DAVE: It sounds as though you get to do all the cool BF/GF stuff, and your guy is there for you in a shake. So big deal if he’s having a little difficulty defining things. Small price to pay for bliss. Besides, lots of guys consider their GFs to also be their BFFs. So there.

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by Bill and Dave | 2/1/2016
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