DEAR CAROL: My Bud and I Always Like the Same Boys!
My BFF and I like a lot of the same boys.
Now, she says I need to stop liking certain boys just because she likes them.
-Boy or Friend?
Try saying something like, “It’s awkward that we like the same guy, but it means we have excellent taste! Let’s make a pact that if one of us starts going out with someone, we won’t let it get in the way of our friendship.” And be sure to talk about other things in your lives besides crushes.