My BF acts weird at school

I'm going out with this really nice guy but he sometimes acts like two different people. At a party or school dance he will hang out around me and act like he likes me a lot.


But when we're at school he completely ignores me and only says like two or three words to me and sometimes he's even MEAN to me.


He will call me klutzy or dumb when I make the smallest mistakes. I like him a lot when we're hanging out outside of school but I find him annoying and mean AT school.


What should I do?!

Hey babe, this could be one of two things. A two-faced dude could just be putting on an act around his pals. Or it could be something more serious. Here's the best way to figure out this fickle fella.


Copping a 'tude?

Your guy prob hasn't been in many relationships and is maybe just getting used to what it's like to have a GF. He might REALLY, honestly like you but he's putting on a tough guy act in front of his friends to seem "cool."  It's like he doesn't want them to think he's acting all "lovey dovey" when all you want is for him to be normal!


...Or just plain rude?

On the down side, there's always a chance that your guy might MEAN those mean comments. The best way to find out what this dude's deal REALLY is? The next time he dishes out a doozy confront him one-on-one. Tell him that you know he's probably joking but sometimes it still hurts your feelings when he calls you names. Maybe he doesn't even realize he's doing it or maybe he feels like you're the one that changes when people are around. You won't be able to work it out unless you both talk it out.


Hopefully your sitch will get better. If it doesn't just remember that you deserve to be with a guy who treats you with respect all the time and wants to be with you no matter who's around!


-Katie S.

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12/4/2009 7:00:00 AM
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