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I’m going to the beach for the whole summer with my family. I don’t know anyone!

I want to have a BF there just for the season.

Any ideas?

DAVE: I advise you not to have any preconceived notions about your summer except that you are going to enjoy your vacation. If you happen to meet a guy you like, that’s great. If not, you’re at the beach all summer! You can’t lose, unless you allow yourself to get your hopes up about a guy and it doesn’t materialize. Or, you settle for a guy you don’t really like just for the sake of having a BF. Outside of sunburn and sand in your suit, those are the only ways you can have a bad time.

BILL: A whole summer at the beach, hanging out, tanning and swimming? Hmmm…something tells me you won’t have too much trouble finding a BF. Or two. Or three.

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BY CAITLIN R. ON 6/21/2009 7:00:00 AM 42 COMMENTS

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MODMODMODMOD!!I've got a huge crush on a guy with a girlfriend. Do you think it would be mean to ask him out while they are still 2gether? He is always staring at me, so I want to know if he really is in to me. What do I do?

Hey girl, in all honesty, I would only stay friends with him. At least until he's not in a relationship anymore. Then you can def consider asking him out.

Lauren R.

kickbrass:) on 3/15/2010 6:12:01 PM

Heyy babe, i think you should defs go for a guy but always have in mind you're only hurting yourself and this guy if you only have him for one summer, and if you really like him it'll b harder

xx leesha

Leesha-25 on 1/26/2010 3:17:19 AM

MOD***Please.....
Okay so Where I come from all of the guys either have gfs or arent worth dating....but im going to the beach soon and I wanted to see if anyone had any tips and stuff on atleast how to get a nice guy friend. My fam and younger cousins are going to be there too. but I want to get a cutie friend or maybe a BF any tips.????
Thhanksssss

Hey girl,

When it comes to snagging a guy, the most important thing you can do is be confident. Don't be afraid to go up to that cute guy on the beach and talk to him. Most of all, be yourself. Remember, there's no need to rush a relationship to get that BF. Get to know these guys and see how things play out. You might just find love where you least expect it. Good luck!

xoxo

Alyssa B.

xoshanniieex3 on 7/30/2009 9:33:36 PM

MOD MOD MOD MOD MOD
ok so i have this problem... i have a tiny crush on a guy who is way older then me. He's 17 and i'm 14, he's gonna be a senior in the fall and i'm gonna be a freshman! and to make things weirder, he's my BFF's big brother. He also has a GF and his wall paper on his phone is a pic of them kissing (on the lips) but sometimes i think he's flirting with me. also i think his GF lives all the way accross the country where he used to
live. should i just get over him? cuz i also like a guy who is actually MY AGE. what should i do? thanks

Hey girl, personally, I would go for the guy who's your age. It's really uncommon for senior guys to like incoming freshmen in high school. However, if you really like him, I would stick with him for a little longer and see how he acts around you. NOt as his sister's friend but as a girl. <3 Jeannie

Jeannie L.

<3jesusfreak<3 on 7/8/2009 7:37:35 PM

*MOD* ive liked a guy at my school for a long time and i thought that he liked me so i put a poem in his locker it said "J comes before K, April is before May, and i think of you each day" and when he found it he was so excited because nobody had liked him before cause they think hes kinda wierd-but i think he has a special charm to him-and he started asking around to try to find out who it was but this girl said that it was probally a joke when he asked her! so i wrote just a plain note this time saying that it wasnt a joke but he didnt beleive that either! a couple of days after this he stopped making eye contact or any contact with me completely and he started likeing this other girl-the same on who told him the note was a fake- but after she rejected him he started flirting with me again but i had already found anouther crush but i liked him so much in the past that i didnt completely get over him should i ask him out in person or ask my other crush that said that he already knew i liked him when i told him? (im attracted to very complex guys arent i?) plz help! Thnx!

Hey girl, what does your heart tell you? It may be confusing, but just take a mintue to thnk about it. Think of the good and bads about each guy. Don't worry about it. You'll figure it out. <3 Jeannie

Jeannie L.

CluelessCutie21 on 6/27/2009 7:33:16 PM

MOD!!!!!!!!******** um I think this guy is cute and I think he likes this other Girl but someone said sounds like he likes me cause he likes to bug me and stuff is this a boys way of telling me he likes me?

Hey girl, it really depends on the guy. There are some guys who are just plain mean, and some who are mean to girls they like because they're too scared to show their true feelings. You're gonna have to chat it up with him to figure it out. Love, Jeannie

Jeannie L.

pink15 on 6/27/2009 7:32:26 PM

Bills advice is awesome!
Check out my profile!!!!!

summersunny on 6/26/2009 11:16:04 AM

girl, u r at the beach the wholllllllllle summer, what could be better than that??!! I would just have fun, and maybe while ur playing some volley, you'll "accidentally" run into a super cute guy, and BA-AM, he'll like u, u'll like him, and viola!!!!

strawberrygirl411 on 6/26/2009 11:14:02 AM

The guy in that picture has such a hot body. And his bathing suit even look nice. One guy I like wears shorts like that and his body is nice but not as nice as that guys.

I could go for a summer bf like that.

luckykel on 6/25/2009 9:57:59 PM

MOD!!!!!!! I'm thirteen and all my friends are dating. My parents are divorced which hurts the situation. My mom found out one of my friends were dating and she's like your not dating at this age, you need to stop growing up soo fast. And my dad says, your not dating till your 30, he says it in a kidding voice though. And everyone is like, I had my first kiss at eight. What age do you think is reasonable to start dating at?

Hey Girl, i think it depends on the maturity level of the person but prob around 14. *Cara T*

Cara T.

sarina_4eva on 6/24/2009 10:43:23 PM

YUPPPP BILL AND DAVE R LIKE DA BEST >.<

chocolatelover13 on 6/24/2009 7:30:30 PM

thnx! u've definitly given my quite a bit to think abt!

Jaimasen on 6/24/2009 6:44:40 PM

MOD*****MOD*****MOD****
i like this guy but he is kinda a jerk, but he is rly cute & im VERY attracted to him. i always want him to notice me when we r at the pool. he has a kinda bad rep but that only makes me want him more. idk wat to do. should i totally blow him off? or should i go for it? HELP!!!

Hey girl, this is a problem when you should weigh the pros and cons. Is it worth asking a bad boy and having the risk of him doing, well, bad boy things? Or should you look for someone else who has a good rep even though you want to get this guy's attention? Which one is more important? <3 Jeannie

Jeannie L.

Jaimasen on 6/24/2009 6:36:47 PM

Great advice! I wouldn't be focused too much on finding guys, vacations are more about having fun!!

gladiator*girl on 6/24/2009 2:09:44 PM

MOD**************MOD************MOD*************** ok well this guy likes me and i used to like him back but he kissed me and i stoped likeing him and i wanna move on now but he doesnt know i dont like him any more. i just want to be friends with him now.he thinks he gave me my first kiss on the cheek but he didnt .Should i mention that to him?should i tell him i dont like him anymore because if i do im going to crush his heart?

I think you should explain to him that you think you two would be better off as friends. Telling him about the non-first kiss is completely up to you! It might hurt his feelins, but if you feel like it is important for him to know then go ahead and tell him! Good luck girlie!

Brooke E.

*girlygirl* on 6/24/2009 10:36:17 AM

Im going 2 the beach 2!!lol! Cant wait and yea I bet guys will just b thinking look at them!!

wh0028 on 6/23/2009 11:50:22 PM

hey mod, how do u get a picture next to ur comment - u don't have to answer my last comment - its just so frusturating - because i would like a picture or sumthin' luv ya

Hey babe, you just upload a pic to your profile under "edit my profile" page.

katelin s.

cats_r_the_best on 6/23/2009 11:04:00 PM

ok well im goen to the beach too but idk if ill find cuteies and stuff it wod b acward bc its me and my mom and some times my cousin...♥!

(*dreamer*)

dancer4life101 on 6/23/2009 10:09:02 PM

MOD! i like my neighbor but im just the quiet girl to him plus my sibs make fun of me HELP!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Hey babe, be outgoing and confident and start talking to him! Who cares what people say?! Do what makes you happy!

katelin s.

cats_r_the_best on 6/23/2009 9:58:53 PM

we need more advice than this

cats_r_the_best on 6/23/2009 9:55:40 PM

MOD!MOD!MOD!MOD!MOD!MOD!
How old should you be when you have your first BF?
Because I really like this guy but iam only going iinto 7th grade do you think thats to young?

Hey babe,

You should ask your parents what they think. Fifteen or sixteen is about the average age but your parents might want you to wait longer.

xoxo Allie

Allie S.

annaelizabeth on 6/23/2009 6:11:39 PM

i already have a boyfriend but i'm not going to see him most of the summer. i want a romantic summer relationship but i already have a boyfriend. help!

lkjfdsa1 on 6/23/2009 1:41:26 PM

thanks

kjt97 on 6/23/2009 12:47:55 AM

mod
how do i become more crushable to guys?
any answerers

Hey babe, just be yourself and be confident! Guys notice that!

katelin s.

kjt97 on 6/23/2009 12:30:52 AM

My friend goes to the beach for the summer and last year she got really close and serious with a guy she met. They still talk and he is really cute from what I saw of him in pictures but now she has a bf and she is wondering what to do because she will be leaving him and seeing her summer bf.

So just watch out because things can get serious over summer because summer is the time for love.

She is kind of lucky because both of the guys are hotties.

luckykel on 6/22/2009 7:56:31 PM

MOD MOD MOD MOD
GIRLS GILRS
i have blonde hair and blue eyes, how should i do my eye makeup, im sick of brown! anything interesting??

dumb_blondie on 6/22/2009 5:19:09 PM

MOD MOD MOD MOD MOD MOD
i have baby blue eyes, what color eyeshadow should i wear, wat should i avoid???

Hey Girl, try sheer golds, pinks, and browns! *Cara T*

Cara T.

dumb_blondie on 6/22/2009 4:53:26 PM

dont. it may lead to bad habits. havent you heard the song summerboy by lady gaga. listen to it.

ohnoudidnt on 6/22/2009 2:49:17 PM

ok i think thats kinda stupid that u just want a bf for the summer i mean hello tlk about using a guy i mean if u really liked him then wouldn't u wanna go out with him 4ever i think thats kinda stupid

Browneyedgirl10 on 6/22/2009 11:50:04 AM

kk16...hey girly! I read ur comment and I decided to step in and say that I told my best guy friend that I liked him last year and now we're dating! Telling him could be a totally good thing. LOL I know this is random but the problem just related to me. Anyway, I like Bill's advice....made me laugh. have fun at the beach!!

converse_girl96 on 6/22/2009 7:12:21 AM

awee I wanna find a summer love (;

evercole95 on 6/21/2009 10:53:40 PM

Mod- Hey! I'm trying to decide wether or not to tell my guy friend that I like him. I think there might be a possiblity that he likes me, but I'm not sure. He's not the type to show it if he does. I know that one of our friends asked if we went out. I don't want to make things weird by saying something, but I also don't want to pass up a good guy. Should I tell him? If so, how should I to where it won't be weird if it isn't returned?
Thanks!

kk16 on 6/21/2009 10:39:06 PM

i like bills advice...man who else thinks the guys on there r hot hot hot!lol=]

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Tmw97 on 6/21/2009 9:38:59 PM

I hope you find a good bf .... but be careful becuase you have to leave at the end of the summer enjoy you vay-cay =)

alidster on 6/21/2009 9:21:58 PM

my advice is to get to know the guys that are there. u could make some great new guy friends, and have an awesome time at the beach!

come check out my profile!
xoxo

giraffesrock on 6/21/2009 7:29:09 PM

omg summer love is so akward for me! we don't have school to see eachother! (me and my bf)

check my profile and leave a comment!

oh and i am looking for advice on how to survive in middle school because none of my friends are going to my middle school. thanks!

ninja.gymnast.21 on 6/21/2009 1:27:11 PM

hey girls!! i am super excited for summer because my crush is going to ask me out and im going on vacation. as for your situation i think you should just talk to all the guys that are your age and get to know them because you don't want to go out with a stranger. and i like bill's advice!

ilovegiraffes45 on 6/21/2009 12:58:38 PM

i like bills advice.that happened to me last summer

beastie on 6/21/2009 12:42:16 PM

Hey girl! If ur at the beach all summer you'll most likely find an awesome bf! But if not don't worry. Just have a great time and the guys will see you are fun and outgoing.

RMLuvvr on 6/21/2009 12:17:12 PM

Sorry, no offense to anybody, but I never like Bill and Dave's advice. It doesn't ever answer the question!

Hey girls, please check out my profile and leave a comment, thanks!

<3Emily

emi.jade.b. on 6/21/2009 10:54:53 AM

I like Bill's advice! no duh ur gonna run into some cute guys if ya staying there the whole summer...lucky!

Check out my profile girls, and please leave a comment, thanks!

SportyGal on 6/21/2009 9:49:42 AM

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