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Two of my buds always fight and want me to choose sides. When I tell them to work it out on their own, they get mad and tell me, “If you were really my friend, you’d take my side.”
They’re both great friends, and I don’t want to lose either of them. Help!
Ugh. Friendship triangles can be complicated. And if you were to get involved in their spats, it would only further complicate things. No matter what, keep refusing to take sides. Let them know you are friends with both of them and do not want to get involved in their tiffs.
Tell them it’s unfair to put you in that position, and that you would really appreciate it if they would understand that. If they keep pressuring you, declare in a joking but firm manner that you are Switzerland—you’re the neutral party and won’t choose sides!
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BY CAITLIN R. ON 6/23/2009 7:00:00 AM 6 COMMENTS
xomrsmaryjonasxox3 on 6/26/2009 8:02:18 PM
when i was in, like, kindergarten, two kids would fight over me...sometimes i would leave, and they would keep fighting. good thing that doesn't happen anymore to me.
cats_r_the_best on 6/26/2009 11:08:10 AM
Hey girl, choosing between friends can be really tough and that's why you never do it. No matter what your friends say, if you are a true and good friend, you won't choose sides. Once they get over the fight they will realize what you did was for their own good. Also, choosing sides just adds more fuel to the fire and causes more drama. Even though it's sometimes hard to say no to friends about anything, sometimes you have to, and saying you aren't going to choose sides is your best bet to help you not get involved in anything. Good Luck Girl! XOXO Check out my pro girlies! I give advice on anything! =] XOXO
dancerlove126 on 6/24/2009 3:32:24 PM
JazzyJennpartygrl on 6/23/2009 2:53:22 PM
that sucks. i was in that situation in grade 8.
beastie on 6/23/2009 11:38:44 AM
OMG I'm in the exact same situation! it sucks, but wow maybe i should joke around with it with them a lil Check out my profile girls, and please leave a comment, thanks!
SportyGal on 6/23/2009 9:50:43 AM
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