I know this is the wrong place to leave a question-needing-advice, but I have never been on this blog b4! I am always really nervous around my boyfriend. Whenever I do ANYthing I get nervous and mess up. I don't want to make a fool of myself in front of him and I am afraid of what he thinks of me. I know it's not really him who makes me feel this way (I have low self-esteem) but I seriously need to get over this. It's holding me back from so many things in school and with my friends. I don't want to break up with him, but I want to stop being so nervous! What should I do?
--Dlsnomore'
Hey Dlsnomore,
First off, I want to welcome you to our blog! We are always happy to help answer your questions and give you some advice.
Dealing with boys is always tricky. You need to relax and be yourself. That is why your guy is with you in the first place! He has seen something wonderful in you and chooses to spend his time with you. So, relax and enjoy it. If you can do this, you will start to have a better time with him and you'll naturally become more at ease with him. Having a boyfriend certainly shouldn't hold you back in any way, and certainly not with your friends and school. Are you sure you're ready for a boyfriend? If the answer is yes then I think you should be able to relax around him. Goodluck and I'm sure you'll get some more great advice from our other GL Girls!
Much Love,
Drea T.
BY ANDREA T. ON 12/7/2006 5:16:57 PM 11 COMMENTS