Your BFF hasn't been all that honest with you. She made you seem like a bad person and you aren't friends anymore. Hmmm...what to do?
My (once) good friend texted me one day asking what I thought of a bunch of people. Since I thought she was my friend, I told her the truth. When I saw some of the people she asked about, they wouldn't talk to me.
Turned out my "friend" told everyone what I said!
BFF Fix- It: This BFF hasn't been too honest has she? Dealing with all the people you talked about could be hard, but you have to solve a problem one at a time. First, tell your BFF how this hurt you and ask her how she would've felt if you did the same to her. Give her a chance to see what she did wrong. Take into consideration why she would've done such a thing. Was it popularity?
Unfortunately, this friendship seems like it's taken a turn for the worse. No BFF should betray any cool girl like that! And as for dealing with the people you talked about? Just be super-nice and give things a while to cool off. If you said some really mean things consider writing personal notes to the peeps you hurt.
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BY CAITLIN R. ON 10/26/2009 7:00:00 AM 24 COMMENTS