My BFF is a guy, and other guys don’t ask me out because they assume he’s my BF.
I don’t want to end our friendship, but I’d like the chance to have a BF.
What should I do?
Having a guy BFF is great! Your other good friends—guys and girls—must know you two don’t date. Or do they? People who’ve never had close friendships with the opposite sex tend to assume people who do are secretly dating.
When you two hang with a group, don’t stick together in a cozy corner. Circulate. If he walks up while you’re talking to someone, introduce him as your good friend. When people ask if he’s your BF, let them know the deal. Sorry, but the burden is on you to bust the myth that this guy’s your BF.
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BY CAITLIN R. ON 10/27/2009 7:00:00 AM 19 COMMENTS