Never know how to act at a party or wish you knew those secrets that would make everyone (especially your super-cute crush) notice you? We’ve got five foolproof tips on how to get tons of compliments, meet new people and grab the attention of that guy you've been eyeing forever.
Dress the Part
Ruffles, metallics, neons, fishnets—add somethin' extra to every ensemble. Creative combos like a little black dress and some shiny leggings will draw people in to compliment your outfit and kick-start your mingling. Unique pieces, like your grandmother’s necklace or a vintage tee are great conversation starters, so you’ll never be at a loss for what to talk about.
Make an Entrance
All eyes are on you when you walk into the party, so it’s important to look your best as you walk through the door. This can be the scariest part, so remember to take a few deep breaths before you head on in. Stand with your shoulders rolled back, head held high and back straight. Smile when you walk in and greet everyone you know. Your friendly, confident attitude will make you look comfy and guests will gravitate towards you.
The Eyes Have It
Confidence is one of the most attractive things to guys, and it all starts with fierce eye contact. Try using a colored eyeliner along your bottom lid to really make your peepers pop. Once you’ve got killer eyes, keep everything else pretty natural. Emphasize your cheekbones with a liquid blush or bronzer. If you're feeling super-daring, go for a bold look with bright red lipstick to draw attention to your mouth. Your crush will be so focused on you and your lips, he won’t notice anyone else at the party.
Strike Up a Convo
Mingle, mingle, mingle! Strike up simple small talk with the people standing around you. Find out where they go to school, what kind of music they're into, what their holiday break plans are, if they’ve ever traveled anywhere cool.... Friendships and relationships all start with the standard "getting to know you" talk, so get gabbin'.
Get Happy
The more you smile, the more people are going to want to hang with you. No one approaches the girl with a frown, so paste a grin on that pretty face and walk around. Everyone loves a chica with a sense of humor, so don’t be afraid to laugh at a funny joke (and feel free to makes some yourself!). Nothing says “I love myself” more than a smile and positive attitude.
-Keltie Egan & Liz Lebedda
BY CAITLIN R. ON 11/13/2009 6:00:00 PM 49 COMMENTS