I was going out with this really sweet and funny guy for like three months. At a school party I found out he had been going out with another girl for the past month. I was crushed! Now he keeps saying how he was sorry but I can't forgive him.
Hey girly! I’m so sorry that you had to go through all that. It’s totally understandable if you can’t forgive him at the moment, but here are some tips to help you cope with this whole sitch and feel better.
First, remove anything that reminds you of your BF. Sometimes the thing that holds you back in a bad relationship is constantly being reminded of the guy that you once dated. Now, this doesn’t mean that you should completely erase all memories of this guy. Cherish the moments that were special to you, but just don’t dwell in that past.
Next, do things that make you feel better about yourself. Is it a laid-back night with your girlies in front of the tube? Or maybe a glam night out? Whatever it is, don’t sit around pushing replay on your crushed moment and bring yourself down about it. It maybe hard to get over your guy in a blink, but the more you make yourself feel better, the faster you will find yourself moving on.
And lastly, this may sound totally insane and hard to do, but forgive the guy. Yes, forgive. This doesn’t mean you should forget. Sure, this might take a while, but letting go of that grudge will make moving on that much easier.