It’s not so hard, but it’s hard to do it gracefully. How to get guys to notice you without looking like a fool? First off, do not emulate Paris Hilton! Instead, put some thought into your actions. If you know a guy is into…say, fencing, use your smarts to strike up a convo and ask good questions. He will be impressed and intrigued by your interest. Next thing ya know, you’ll move on to chatting about all kinds of stuff. Touché!