went out with a great guy for a few months, then I moved. It’s been
a year, and now I’m moving back. I still love him, but what if he’s
changed or has a new girlfriend? Should I try to go out with him or
just lay low?
Wow! A year with no info? No letters? IMs? Messages in a bottle?
Maybe you should send him an e-mail to catch up before you return.
That might give you a clue about how he feels for you. Better to know
what you’re up against.
Dave: Guys are weird. If we weren’t, Bill and I would be just a couple of
witty fellows rather than highly respected magazine columnists
attempting to make sense of our gender’s behavior toward girls.
Perhaps your ex hasn’t been in touch because he’s worried you
have a boyfriend. But, Bill is right: Find out the situation before
having visions of picking up where you left off.
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