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How to act around your long-lost crush during break


I might see my best dude friend/mutual crush this winter for the first time in six months. I'm really nervous! What if he is dating another girl or if we are all disconnected? He's one of my best friends ever! I want to stay that way. Please help!


His Answer: Eric, 15, says, “Just act like the friends you have always been and see how he feels and if he is even available.”


Decoded: Don’t stress too much about being disconnected, it may be a bit awkward at first but once you get back into the swing of things it will seem like he never even left. If he is dating another girl be happy for him and support his decisions.


Your Move: Reconnect with him since it has been so long! Catch up on each others lives and if he doesn’t have a girl friend tell him how you feel. If he lives far away though it may be a bit tough to start a relationship. Work on your friendship and be together when he comes to visit.


BY ANA D'AMBROGI ON 12/23/2011 11:00:00 AM

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