Crushes

Tease, tease, tease! Turn your nervousness into flirtatiousness



I really like this guy, but I always start conversations with things like, "you are an idiot," or "wow, you are strange." I don't know why I keep doing it, but I really want to stop so that he will start to like me!

Sounds like you just get a bit nervous, chica. It’s entirely normal to be on top of your game and then accidentally blurt something out that you wish you hadn’t. This guy gets to you, so generally you can lock up for a second and lose your normal attitude toward him. Instead of being a cute, playful flirt, you’ve taken up the mantle of a different flirt style. Lucky for you, what you have going on here can be turned into nothing more than a little teasing now and then.

Remember way back in say, elementarysSchool, when the boys would show that they like you by kicking some dirt after you, splashing you in the pool, or calling you some silly name? A lot like your situation, dontcha think?

 

That’s right, babe, he used to flirt in the exact same way. Wanna know why that’s actually an advantage for you? He gets that. Because he used to react to girls he likes in the same way, he’ll have a little radar for when you’re flirting the same way. You just have to hone your skills a bit and then give it a little nudge.

It’s all about the tone of your voice when you say things like that. If you’re leaning more toward sounding sarcastic and you say it with a little giggle or a smile, then you easily become a Grade-A flirt. Stray away from any seriousness when you toss out those comments, and don’t forget to throw in some cutesy signs of affection like hugs or eye contact and things of the sort.  
 
 

BY JORDAN SARNOVSKY ON 11/2/2013 12:00:00 AM

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