I have been with my
BF for a while but ever since our first kiss he has been kind of funny. He says
he enjoyed it but he just doesn't seem as into me. What should I do?
I think the best way to know what he is thinking and why he
is acting funny is to have a talk with him. You should approach him and ask to
speak in private. Maintain a cool and calm tone during this conversation. You
don’t want him to feel like you are trying to start a fight.
Begin by pointing out that you have noticed he has been
distant towards you and be prepared to give him example of when he has done
this because he will likely ask. Let him
know how you felt those when he was acting this distant way and why his
distance is becoming a concern for you. Remind him that you care about him and
just want for the two of you to be the best couple that you could possibly be.
He could just be nervous about making kissing a new and
continual part of your relationship. He also could have had something personal
happen to him around the same time of your first kiss. You will never know
until you ask. Good luck, girl!
BY AMANDA POOLE ON 4/1/2012 12:00:00 AM
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