I’ve had a BF for about two months. He has been asking me
nasty questions. Like, he asked me to make out, so we did. Now he’s asking to
see and touch things. Ewww! I can’t tell him I’m not into that. I’m thinking of
Dear To Dump or Not to Dump,
You say you can’t but, yes, you can tell your boyfriend that
you don’t like the pressure. You can say that you enjoy talking to him but not
about sexual stuff. If you can’t bring yourself to speak your mind and he keeps
making you feel uncomfortable, free yourself from this relationship—immediately.
Don’t worry about being mean. Right now, he’s not worrying about how you’re
feeling, is he? Trust me—you’d survive a breakup, and so would he. If you feel
you are ready to be in a relationship, then you also need to be prepared to
assert yourself in situations that make you uneasy.
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BY CAROL WESTON ON 4/25/2012 9:00:00 AM
POSTED IN guys, dating advice, GL's best guy advice, boyfriend Q & A, weird guy stuff, pressure to get physical, too far too fast, sexuality