I just found out that
my BF was cheating on me!! I still like him. Should we break up or not? The
other thing is that he wants to keep it a secret that we are dating and he
would talk about me behind my back. What should I do??
Hey chica! I think you need to turn around and run from this
guy as fast as you can! The first bad sign was that he wanted to keep your
relationship secret. If he doesn’t want the world to know you’re his girl and
he isn’t proud to be with you, then he is not as invested in the relationship
as he should be. You deserve a guy that will shout from the rooftops about how
much he adores you.
Next, he talks about you behind your back. If he has
problems with you, he needs to address them to you and only you. Venting to
friends is one thing, but gossiping about you, which is what he was seemingly doing,
is a clear sign your relationship is going nowhere.
The ultimate betrayal is that he cheated on you. No one who
really cares about you is going to cheat on you. He would not be flirting with
other girls if he really was concerned about your feelings. You are worth more
than he will be able to offer.
I think you know it’s time to break up with him. You should
take some time for yourself and then find someone worthy of being your