Ask Bill & Dave

What "going out" means to guys


What does a guy expect from you if he asks you to “go out” with him? I’m only in eighth grade so, technically, I can’t actually “go” anywhere with a guy. 
 
Bill: Guys don’t expect much. Just total worship, sports tickets, and validation of the egotistical belief that they’re funny and good-looking. I’m kidding! When a guy asks you to “go out” with him, he basically wants to share good (and bad) times with you. With the right person, that can be kind of cool. The truth is, you really don’t have to “go out” with someone to care a lot about him or her.

 

Dave: To some guys “going out” might mean an occasional call or text after school. To others, it means spending all your free time with each other. Figuring out what “going out” means is just one more issue in the long, long laundry list of things involved in sorting out the BF/GF thing. Find a guy who’s looking for the same thing as you…and you’ve got yourself a keeper.

BY BILL AND DAVE ON 4/21/2014 12:00:00 AM

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