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Why are guys so hot and cold?


 
I’ll be talking to one of my guy friends about his GF, and he’ll tell me how much he likes her, how cool she is, blah blah blah. The next week, he tells me he’s lost interest and is breaking up with her. And nothing has happened—she’s the same girl! How can guys like a girl one week and not like her the next for no reason?
 

Dave: Who says we have to have a reason? Guys can be hot and cold when it comes to relationships. Sometimes, we like the security of knowing we always have someone to hang with. But being with the same person can do a couple of things to the male psyche. First off, it can be boring. Same girl, same stuff, same One Direction posters on her wall. Second, steady companionship can be scary—an intimidating jump from being with your core group of guys to kickin’ it with the same girl all the time. We need a break here and there. Normally, a few days with the guys has us longing for our gal. And the cycle starts all over again.…Arrrgh, if I have to see that Harry Style dude’s face one more time!

 

Bill: I’ll tell you why guys are so fickle at times, if you’ll tell me why so many cool girls go ga-ga over creeps. The point is that logic takes a vacation in matters of the heart. When logic comes back, the heart usually hits the road. The enduring dilemma of love!
 
 

BY BILL AND DAVE ON 7/29/2013 12:00:00 AM

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