I fake-dumped my BF to test his feelings for me. Later, I
tried to tell him it was just a test and that I didn’t really mean it. I asked
if he would forgive me, but he said no. Now, he’s going out with another girl
and won’t even talk to me.
Dear Heart Broken,
Poor guy! And now, poor you! I’m afraid your test taught him
not to fully trust you and you learned (the hard way) not to play games with
other people’s hearts. When you pretend-dumped him, he must have been
devastated. No wonder he doesn’t want to say, “Sure, let’s go back to where we
were.” Breakups hurt, but you will survive. Stay busy and, from now on, if you
ever want to know how a guy feels, ask him, don’t trick him.
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BY CAROL WESTON ON 6/6/2012 1:00:00 PM
POSTED IN guys, dating advice, GL's best guy advice, boyfriend Q & A, dealing with a breakup, ex boyfriend Q & A, advice, advice from Carol Weston