A boy I've known for 12 years asked me out on my first date. We
hung out a couple of nights ago and he was so serious about me; I could tell
that he really likes me. He almost kissed me, and I was so nervous that I
became nauseous. I even pushed him away. Is it normal to feel this nervous
before a first kiss?
girl! Your first kiss is a major moment in your life. Very few girls are not
nervous before their first kiss…it’s perfectly normal. It sounds to me like
this boy was pretty intense, so that definitely could have contributed to your
nerves. Your first kiss may seem scary, but it will be so special and wonderful
when it happens. If not, you’ll have plenty of other times to get that special
kiss with someone you really like.
that being said, don’t rush it! This boy is obviously into you, but how do you
feel? When he went in to kiss you, did you push him away because you were
nervous or because you simply didn’t want to kiss him? Take a moment to stop
and think about your feelings for him before diving into a first kiss that you
might not be ready for. Take your time, follow your gut, and when that special
moment comes, relax and enjoy!
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BY CATHERINE CROZIER ON 4/21/2013 10:00:00 AM
POSTED IN guys, dating advice, GL's best guy advice, boyfriend Q & A, kissing crash course, first-kiss freak-out, I'm not ready to kiss