I never know what
to talk about when talking to my crush on the phone! I've tried to talk about
things we have in common, but it always ends in an awkward silence. Any ideas?
Hey babe, sometimes it is tough to talk to guys on the phone. There
are very few who know how to keep up a good convo, which puts a lot of strain
on us girls. So, one thing you can try is to only call your crush when you know
there’ll be something for you two to chat about. Did he just get back from a
trip to the beach with his fam? Ask him how it went. Or maybe you’ve been
saving up and finally got yourself a sweet longboard. So describe it to him,
and see if he wants to come over and check it out sometime.
The trick is not to call your cutie all the time. If you’re checking
up on him too often, of course you’re gonna run out of things to talk about. Leave
a few days in between so that even if he’s being a bum this summer, you can
still give him the deets on all the excitement that you’ve got going on. And
don’t be afraid of talking too much – tell him what’s happening in your life
because you never know what topic is gonna spark his interest, or maybe give
you an idea of a question to ask him.
If you’re just dying to call your guy, but it hasn’t been that long
since you last talked, that’s okay, too. Remember that not every phone call has
to be super-lengthy. So check in with him, but have an excuse ready so you can
hop off the phone before the silence sets in. That way, you’ve reminded him
that you exist, and you can leave some topics for the next time you wanna hear
his cute voice.
BY CARRIE RUPPERT ON 7/21/2012 12:00:00 AM
POSTED IN guys, GL's best guy advice, how to get a BF, how to flirt, crush crash course