my boyfriend is really immature. He will not introduce me to his parents when
we have been dating for a year and a half. It really bugs me because he has met
my parents yet I cannot meet his. It is like I am not good enough and it makes
me fell like I am not that special to him.
girl! Let’s get to the bottom of this situation. I totally understand why you
feel like you’re not special to him. A year and half is a pretty long time! You
two are obviously in a committed, mature relationship. If he doesn’t have
strong feelings for you or care about you, he wouldn’t stay in a relationship
with you. He should be proud and excited to introduce a great girl like you to
his family, so there has to be another reason why he’s reluctant.
about some reasons why he might not want to. Is he allowed to be dating? Maybe
his family is going through some tough times and he doesn’t want you to see
that. There are a number of possible reasons he hasn’t mixed you with his
instead of constantly wondering, I think you should just sit him down and ask
him. Try not to be confrontational.
Simply say, “We’ve been together for a year and half and it would mean a lot to
me if I met your family.” If he won’t give you a clear answer, figure out what
you both want out of the relationship and if it’s truly worth the effort to be together.
BY RACHAEL ALLEN ON 7/22/2012 12:00:00 AM
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