Why are all the guys
I like jerks? I think they’re nice and funny at first, but then they turn out
to be so mean and nasty. I know I shouldn’t like them, but I can’t get over
them. Help!
Hey girlie! Kudos to you for realizing that jerks are bad
news. The next step to getting over these boys is probably to start checking
out some of the quieter guys in your classes. Even though they’re shy, chances
are they’re totes sweeter than the jerks you’ve been crushing on before. Find
some common ground between you two, and it could be the start of something
great! But, if chatting up shy guys isn’t really your thing, try talking to
some of your guy buds. You may start seeing them in a different light once you
have heart-to-heart convo, or find out that you both love that show from the
'90s.
Or, if you just want to take a break from the crushing
scene, plan a girls’ night out or have some me-time by getting lost in your
fave book. It may take some time, but
you’ll get over these jerks, and who knows? Maybe you’ll meet a really sweet
guy next time you’re at the mall or grabbing some fro-yo!
BY KELLY MYSLINSKI ON 8/11/2012 12:00:00 AM
POSTED IN guys, dating advice, GL's best guy advice, crush crash course, boyfriend Q & A, mean