So, you've got a super embarrassing Q you're dying to ask someone...except the only person around is Dad or Grandma Sue. So. Not. Happening. What's a girl to do? Well, if you really want to see Dad run for the hills, you can ask him--and if he's got the answer, we give him major parenting props! But your best bet is to find another gal you can trust--someone who won't laugh, blab or tell ya the wrong thing (um, that means the bud who's always yankin' your chain is O-U-T, out). Pick a lady who's been there, done that and lived to tell the tale. If you can't ask Mom, chat up a cool aunt, a friend's totally chill mother or another adult you can trust, like a friend of the family, a god parent or your school nurse. And if all else fails--or we're you're number-one choice, obvi--you can always count on GL to dish the right advice when ya need it most.