I’ve gone out with this guy a few times, but it never worked
out, even though we have so much in common. Seems when we’re a couple, we don’t
talk. When we’re not a couple, we talk all the time. He’s sweet, cute and
funny. Is it possible for us to be “friends with benefits”?
Not a good idea. Think about how you might feel if you two
were “friends with benefits” and then he asked out another girl for Saturday
night? Bad, probably. So why settle? If you two want to go out, make an effort
to blast through the awkwardness. If you really aren’t compatible as a couple,
then be friends. But don’t complicate matters by adding making-out to the mix.
The “benefits” you refer to will feel better with someone you are comfortable
enough sharing your emotions with, not just your kisses.
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BY CAROL WESTON ON 10/17/2012 10:00:00 AM
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